Dirty Post

*Post is NSFW*

I know its early in the morning but reddit never sleep.

I personally wouldn’t call these dirty, one funny and the other informative.

So here is the funny one, : Its a sketch about spooning.

“Spoon Me”

The second one is a comment from reddit user u/Drop_ who talks about how sex feels like performance to men

A lot of women don’t realize this, but men still have the role of “provider” during sex. While some women have an idea of this, because their partner will be overly focused on making sure she orgasms – which can put pressure on her and make it less likely – but pressure is always present for men.

Speaking in terms of generalities, men are more often dominant / expected to be dominant (I think it was 87% of people expected the male to be dominant in the bedroom), and it’s almost universally seen that the man is supposed to be the one to provide the orgasm for the woman (You will see “ladies first” in many conversations about sex, often from guys as its often self imposed).

So that is two things on top of each other – as a man you have to be the one to take charge, and you are generally tasked or at least feel the responsibility of making sure your partner climaxes. It should be noted that taking charge is also part and parcel of initiating, which means it’s often up to the man to make sure his partner is “in the mood” so to speak.

But there are other considerations as well. There is the constant fight to maintain an erection while not reaching orgasm – because either one before your partner does is seen as a failure. And even if your partner comes, there’s the idea that you should be able to do better lingering in the back somewhere. And this is not even entirely in a man’s control. Losing an erection during sex is something that just happens. And sometimes no matter how hard you try to hold it back, that orgasm just comes. These are physiological responses which can be sort of controlled, but not entirely (for most people anyway).

Might as well also say that the whole penis situation can be even more complicated because many women expect their partner please them with their penis (even if not realistic) and many if not most men feel like if they can’t please their partner with their penis they are failures of men. This is one of the places the penis insecurity comes from that is so often on display in this sub.

So, while all that is going on, you also have to consider that sex is much more physically taxing for men in pretty much all positions except for cowgirl. And the fact that it is physically taxing can make it both harder to maintain the erection and harder to not ejaculate.

Anyhow, it can add up to a pretty stressful experience – and the more you like the other person, the more stressful it gets because there is additional pressure to perform. Losing or failure to get an erection is often construed as lack of interest. PE is viewed as lack of control. etc.

It’s not to say that sex isn’t enjoyable. It is very much so. But it’s not enjoyable in the same way that masturbation is, where there is no pressure in any way, just relaxation and enjoyment. This is also one of the reasons that many guys often love blowjobs to completion. It’s nice to have a partnered sexual situation where there is absolutely no pressure on you.

A link to the reddit page is here : Do upvote

I think its beautifully written. Sorry if it doesn’t suit your taste. 😀

3 is better than 2

*Warning- This post contain melancholy crap so much that even I am disgusted*

*You have beenwarned*

I am not a social person. 

I like people but there are too many stupid people in this world.

I am superior and everyone should bow down to me. 

Yeah… don’t worry people, this side of me doesn’t come out often.

I don’t have close friends.

I have friends but mostly they’re just extension from colleague.

well this got grim. Nope, this is not a grim post, please continue reading.

Learning from my experience I have established a couple of terms for hanging out with friends.

1. One on One

When it’s just me and him/her the time we spend has quality. For me going out in large group is meaningless. It could potentially improve the group cohesion but on and individual level, its trash. You only get to know the outer layer of everyone on the group, not knowing if they’re faking it or not. There’s no fun in outer layer, the fun is what’s inside and I can only reach that part from talking one-on-one. This is hard, asking a girl to do this. It’s even harder when I want to do this to a guy. 

So people, when I ask you to go out with me and not inviting anyone else. It’s not because I want the D nor the V, it’s because you’re interesting and I want to know you better.

2. Even number

As it is almost impossible to go one-on-one, My group has to have an even amount of people. It is known that people don’t like being with me, just me. Though this doesn’t annoy me, it is bugging me.

Why?

So, Having an even number of people will reduce the possibility of me being left out. Most likely, I would say around 70%.When other people talk in pairs, someone would eventually end up with me. When this happens one-on-one talk is possible. Thing’s like going up the escalator will do this. 

3. Group talk

When else fails, try to make a group talk. This way no other people will have personal time and no pain will be inflicted on me.

Those are my rules, it have been my guide since high school almost 10 years ago.

on 18th and 19th June 2013, I was proven wrong.

I went to go watch a movie with a girl, lets call her M. She is a pretty girl whose smile is angelic. By 4chan term I would say 10/10. Failed to have a one-on-one, she brought a friend whose name is C. Since C is a female I was okay with M bringing C. My priority was on “Man of Steel” not these girls. I would watch Man of Steel by myself, these girls are luxury items so I didn’t really care how many people were going with us. (I understand that women are not items though my writing may hint otherwise). Nevertheless, I prepared the worse.

I was and is still shocked. It did not feel like a 2+1, it felt like 3.  They did not alienate me. They didn’t left me out any of their conversation. They were willing tell me the story, how its funny. We laugh and laugh and laugh. People stare and we didn’t care. Its better, funnier, and I love it. From what I understand, this is all the work of superfriendly power that M and C possess. This superfriendly power is a power I want. Do understand, they are VERY friendly. So friendly that I can call it a “power”. I still want to emphasise on how amazing M is. She asked a stranger to take a picture of us. Though this could mean a) she loves picture or b) she is nice and she believes other people are nice and would help her and she is not embarassed to ask people for help.

These ability I do not have. I want to be able to talk to stranger at ease. Being friendly to every people I see. A total opposite from my original belief. She believes in people while I don’t. I believe in numbers.

I haven’t known them for long. I’ve known M for almost a semester and C for 3 days.  There might be some dark side in them but I like what I see so far. I want to know them better, go deeper into the second layer and solve that puzzle. (just like the movie inception)

Yeah, I’m just ranting now.

I want to say sorry to my girlfriend but worry not. From what I hear they have an even wonderful boyfriend which I am curious of.  :p

Conclusion, M and C is amazing. I would like to know them better and see their SO. I hope I can as friendly as M is, learn her way of living  and live a happy, beautiful life.

Last! A hillarious collection of pictures I got from reddit (related)

“Life of a Third Wheel”

p.s Might add picture of us but later when I have M n C ‘s approval

Man of Steel

It has been too long. I have been too busy with exams and paper dues.

I am so excited. I have never gave a review of a movie I watched on the cinema, the last one was 5cm and it was AGES ago.

Main reason I haven’t done this is because my girlfriend is out of town so I have no friend to watch movies with. *sadface*

On the bright side! I watched this movie with 2 wonderful woman, which made the movie experience that much better *brag*

Brace yourself. Here comes the big score.

9/10

I like most part and I love the rest. To me, there is no flaw in this movie (I might be biased).  It is everything I expect and more.

I heard people say this movie is bad. Since I have no idea why, lets do some research online

 ——*Research in Progress*——

I stand corrected. While the movie has bad reviews online, people love the movie.

This movie scored 8.2 on ImdB, just as 80% audience loved it on Rottentomatoes

but it labeled Rotten with a 55 score from metacritic. (Tomatometer 56%)

(19/6/2013)

This is in fact peculiar. Well, someone have made a post regarding this. 

CLICK!

The post is wonderfully made, check it out.  do it. Now.

 

So I watched this movie at Blitzmegaplex CentralPark. I bought the popcorn combo which got me this

 

It is a thingy they put on top of a cup. Its like the Gandalf one I get when I watch The Hobbit.

The seat I was sitting on wasn’t the best kind. I was not in the middle of the room. Didn’t matter though.

I sat down, try to find paper and pen so I can write what I was thinking. Couldn’t find any. So I told my brain, “Good Luck my friend”

The whole movie I spent trying to find a flaw in this movie. I keep my eyes wide open every fight scene making sure that superman doesn’t sweat (He didn’t!)

I failed, I found no flaw in this movie. It was such an amazing experience for me. The only reason I didn’t give it a 10 is that it didn’t surprise me that much. It is what I expected.

 

Let’s start listing the stuff I love!

Henry f*in Cavill

Handsome son of a gun.  Abs. (not gay)

Besides him, the other casts are great as well. They are not the high end actors but the perform really well.

Amy Adams, Michael Shannon, Russel Crowe, Laurence Fishburne, and so on. (Copy pasting actor names from Imdb like a boss)

 Jumping time line, lots of flashbacks. Going back and forth between timelines, seeing young Clark Kent, teenager Clark Kent (smallville-esque), baby Kal-El. 

The jumps was beautifully written and had a huge impact on our emotion.

Computer Graphics is so amazing, the transition between CGI and just acting is subtle. 

 Air ripples, sonic boom as Superman goes supersonic is gorgeous. I would classify the graphics as porn.

For the music quality, its a bit weird. Some are too loud and some just don’t feel right. Overall sound is very good, those machinaries produce beautiful dubstep-y sound. It’s like transformer but even better.

Next on the list is the technology, it is amazing.  The nerdiness inside my body screams when they see it. 

 

After doing a little bit more research, I have a better understanding why some people don’t like the movie.

They don’t dislike the movie, they don’t like Superman. I am going to explain why people don’t like superman but as I am trying to make this post spoiler free, I won’t do it, here.

 

So people, Do watch the movie. I would watch it again.

9/10